m o n o c h r o m e j u n k i e †photographer. artist. author. singer. songwriter. musician. teacher. student. humanitarian. visionary. addiction counselor. therapist.
When they say you don’t exist but they can’t keep their tongue off your back 24/7, around the clock, no days off- to anyone they speak to.
This is called obsession. People who have obsessive personalities are quick to “cut people out of their lives”- I use quotes because that’s the perspective they administer (to all) while incredibly, simultaneously, continue tearing you down vehemently- nonstop- for YEARS, year after year.
If he or she truly cut said person out of their life, they would be silent as the grave when it comes to you.
These are the telltale signs of an obsessive personality; the individual becomes consumed with the person they profess to cut out of their lives.
They say one thing with their mouths, yet their very words tell the true tale.
What is this type of obsession?
It is hatred. Control. Revenge. Obsession.
If you are dealing with someone who is hatefully obsessed with you, the best thing you can do (for your own health and sanity) is to completely ignore them. They’re truly not worthy of taking up space in your head, so don’t do them any favours.
Hope this helps some of you out there! It surely has helped me, as I’ve dealt with two individuals who are collectively obsessed with me- consumed with me- simply cannot stop talking about me, and probably never will. Yet, I have tremendous peace and joy in my life because I choose to focus my personal lenses on peace, not chaos.
If you too are in a similar situation, know that you’re worth that peace, joy, and love, and that you’re not defined by their words or thoughts, nor are you defined by your past.
Hey guys, as many of you know by now, I’m living with my elderly Mom in her golden years, as her full-time caregiver; I put in 12 hours per day, regularly. She’s discovered that she has a partial collapsed lung as a result of taking a nasty fall that culminated in a punctured lung (before the collapse) and major bruising all along her left rib cage on the side. We only discovered these things after I collected her Medical Records from the hospital several days ago- they literally told her (or me- her Medical POA) nothing, at all.
Now she’s discovered (according to her records) that she also had a dissapating blood clot in her calf- not good! In layman’s terms, that simply means, it’s a potentially fatal condition in which the blood clot starts breaking down (and apart) which could then progress into what is known as an embolus- a traveling blood clot that could strike her heart or brain- killing her almost instantly. Aaaaand she has pneumonia.
So things are pretty serious. I’m asking all of my Prayer Warriors to please say some special prayers for my Mom, please and thank you!
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For Gav: I saw this in colour on my morning walk down an alley yesterday, but my brain immediately converted it to black and white & I thought of you. 😉 Hope you like it. xx
m o n o c h r o m e j u n k i e † 